Ken, there are ways out of this mess. 63 is still young, and you can have a lot of good time ahead of you. Your job right now is to learn that Life can be full, fun, and satisfying even if you are single. That will take some work and effort on your part, and it will involve your family, your friends, your church if you have one, and getting yourself out of the house, to movies, tractor shows, museums, day trips, parks, etc etc. There's a million things out there, but you're probably way out of practice in finding them. It won't be satisfying at first, but it absolutely will get to that place in the long run. Another piece that will be of immense benefit is to consider getting yourself some professional help with a counselor, and possibly some temporary medicinal help if you're getting crippled with anxiety, can't sleep, or getting clinically depressed, where you can't concentrate, have no energy, can't get interested in anything, getting overwhelmed with guilt, losing weight, or most dangerously, having any suicidal thoughts. Psychiatry works. Period. End of story. Call your family doctor, or your local mental health clinic, and they will steer you from there. Be careful that you don't get caught in so-called "wallowing", and by that I mean to put pictures away, get any of her personal things out of the house, stuff like that. You don't need all that 'in your face'. And 'never say never' about the future. People are inherently social. There are plenty of women in similar situations, looking for a man who is steady and dependable. You won't be able to see that now, because you're hurting too bad. Get yourself back to a semblance of solidity and self-confidence, and you might find yourself getting very surprised. I'll disagree with plowhand in one minor respect. 'Hating' won't help your healing. It will just keep you bitter. The opposite of Love is not Hate. The opposite is 'Indifference'. When you don't care where she has gone or what she is doing, you will have arrived. Best wishes, sir.
We sell tractor parts! We have the parts you need to repair your tractor - the right parts. Our low prices and years of research make us your best choice when you need parts. Shop Online Today. [ About Us ]
Today's Featured Article - Harvestin Hay: The Early Years (Part 2) - by Pat Browning. The summer of 1950 was the start of a new era in farming for our family. I was thirteen, and Kathy (my oldest sister) was seven. At this age, I believed tractor farming was the only way, hot stuff -- and given a chance I probably would have used the tractor, Dad's first, a 1936 Model "A" John Deere, to go bring in the cows! And I think Dad was ready for some automation too. And so it was that we acquired a good, used J. I. Case, wire tie hay baler. In addition to a person to drive th
... [Read Article]
Latest Ad:
Sell 1958 Hi-Altitude Massey Fergerson tractor, original condition. three point hitch pto engine, Runs well, photos available upon request
[More Ads]
All Rights Reserved. Reproduction of any part of this website, including design and content, without written permission is strictly prohibited. Trade Marks and Trade Names contained and used in this Website are those of others, and are used in this Website in a descriptive sense to refer to the products of others. Use of this Web site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy
TRADEMARK DISCLAIMER: Tradenames and Trademarks referred to within Yesterday's Tractor Co. products and within the Yesterday's Tractor Co. websites are the property of their respective trademark holders. None of these trademark holders are affiliated with Yesterday's Tractor Co., our products, or our website nor are we sponsored by them. John Deere and its logos are the registered trademarks of the John Deere Corporation. Agco, Agco Allis, White, Massey Ferguson and their logos are the registered trademarks of AGCO Corporation. Case, Case-IH, Farmall, International Harvester, New Holland and their logos are registered trademarks of CNH Global N.V.
